even for posting invites, thr should be a courtesy call/sms
prior... not out of the blue someone u haven't contact for the past
10 yrs send u an invite type lor...
actually the closer all the more should give personally...
x2 like my primary school friend which I have not met for almost
20 years
We found each other on Facebook and he smsed me to ask if it's
ok to send me his Wedding invitation card (I knew from the rest he
was getting married)
I told him I'll be happy to go and I received his card by post
way in advance too!
Plus, he kindly sent an sms to us 2 days before the wedding to
remind us and confirm our attendance